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RDP Coaching  —  Twelve-Week Men's Program
Gardener
& Warrior
Faith  —  Habits  —  Fitness  —  Living, Embodied Faith
When I built Gardener and Warrior I didn't break any new ground in self-improvement. But I broke new ground in myself.
The best information for becoming the man God made you to be has been available for two thousand years. What I built is a system that helps you build your own systems — and apply what you already know in a life of living embodied faith.
Secular self-improvement can change your behavior. Only sanctification changes your soul. This program does both — using the tools of habit and discipline in service of the upward call. Pressing in toward the man God made you to be. Closing the gap between who you are and who you're called to be.
It's not an easy road. But it's the right one.
Show Up. Do the Work.
The Gardener and the Warrior are not two different men or two different seasons. They are the same truth about the same process seen from two angles. Together they name what neither captures alone: faithful presence in a process you don't control, over time, trusting that the work is working even when you can't see it.
Twelve Weeks.
Three Stages.
The program moves through three stages across twelve weeks. Each stage builds on what came before. Nothing is skipped. Nothing is rushed.
1
Dig Deep
Plant Seeds
Weeks 1–4  —  Honesty
The ground is examined before anything is planted. Honest inventory of the soil — the patterns, the gaps, the hard ground. A man who cannot see where he actually is cannot get to where he needs to go.
The Gardener names the posture of formation — patient, receptive, present, trusting. He does not produce the growth. He creates the conditions for it, tends them faithfully, and receives what comes when it comes. He does not rush the soil. He does not pull the seed up to check if it is growing. He works with the nature of the thing rather than against it, understanding that some processes have their own timeline that cannot be compressed without damage.
2
Tend the
Garden
Weeks 5–8  —  Discipline
The habits that produce a life of embodied faith are built one at a time, intentionally. The gardener does not wish the weeds away. He tends. He shows up. He does the work regardless of how he feels.
The Warrior names the commitment of formation — disciplined, consistent, present especially when nothing dramatic is happening. The Warrior shows up every day. Not only for the hard sessions, the peak experiences, the summit moments. For Tuesday. For the unglamorous accumulated presence over time that produces the man the single heroic effort never could.
3
Cultivate
Weeks 9–12  —  Love
The man who has done the work of the first two stages has something to offer. The third stage turns outward — toward the people in his life, toward his calling, toward the mission God planted in him before he was born.
Three Virtues
The program is built on three virtues that are practiced in sequence across the three stages. They are not personality traits. They are choices — made daily, in the specific situations that test them.
Honesty
See and speak reality as it actually is — starting with yourself. Not how you wish things were. Not how you report them to others. What is actually true.
Discipline
Do what needs doing regardless of how you feel. The man who only acts when motivated is at the mercy of his emotions. The disciplined man acts because it is right.
Love
Act for the genuine benefit of another regardless of what you receive in return. Not sentiment. Not performance. The costly choice made for someone else's actual good.
The Tools
These frameworks travel with you beyond the twelve weeks. They are not concepts to understand — they are instruments to use when the work gets hard.
The Journal
The keystone habit. Daily honest writing that builds the capacity for self-knowledge the rest of the program depends on.
The Five Stages of Thought
Assault. Interaction. Consent. Defeat. Passion. Interrupt early. The thought that arrives uninvited is not yours. What you do with it is.
The Baseline
The minimum daily standard across Faith, Habits, and Fitness. Zeros are not permissible. Maintenance is progress.
The Fear & Failure Protocol
Name your default. Identify your trigger. Choose your response in advance. A man whose brothers know his protocol has removed the hiding space the old pattern depends on.
The Five Christian Habits
Prayer. Bible. Fellowship. Service. Charity. The habits every Christian practices when the faith is alive — and the first quietly abandoned when it drifts.
The Process
Concept. Reflection. Acceptance. Planning. Action. Failure. Reassessment. Reiteration. Failure is not the end of the process. It is a step in it.
Four Ways In
The program is the same across every format. What changes is the depth of the experience — and the depth of Ronald's involvement.
Self-Directed
$97
One-time purchase — journal included
The full program at your own pace. Every framework, every tool, every stage. Best for the man who is self-motivated and ready to work independently. Anyone can gain from the material.
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Local Group
$97
One-time purchase — group use
Purchase the program for use in a men's group, small group, or church context. Ronald can assist with guidance and resources for group facilitation. The program was built for community.
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Single Cohort
$397
One cohort with Ronald — no ongoing membership
One full cohort run with Ronald present and guiding. A defined group of men going through the program together with direct coaching. No ongoing membership required — just the cohort.
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Next Cohort
[NEXT COHORT DATE — UPDATE BEFORE DEPLOYING]
Express interest to be notified when enrollment opens.
I bought a program once. Got two weeks in and knew it was the real thing — I was getting something from it. But then I thought: this is great, but I need to go through it with the man who built it. That's when I thought of the Bible. Anyone can gain from its wisdom. But there's nothing like going through it with the Author. That's what the cohort is.
One-on-One
with Ronald
The most direct and personal form of the work. Ronald coaches you individually — your specific barriers, your specific life, your specific calling. Pricing by conversation. This is a relationship before it is a service.
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For the Man Who
Has Done the Work
Gardener and Warrior is complete and valuable on its own. A man who finishes the twelve weeks has something real — built habits, honest self-knowledge, a framework that travels with him for the rest of his life.

But the program is also a foundation. For the men who go through it and want to go further — who have done the work and are ready for the next level — there is more. The community continues. The retreat is coming.

G&W alumni receive specific recognition across every tier of the RDP Coaching ecosystem — including preferential pricing on the Here Am I retreat when it opens enrollment.
Available to Alumni
Ongoing Community The member portal and brotherhood beyond the twelve weeks
Here Am I Retreat Alumni pricing on the four-day wilderness intensive — coming soon
One-on-One Intensive Two days of direct personal work on one specific barrier
Run It Again The program runs differently the second time — with what you now know
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with Ronald
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